The purpose of this article is to give you an idea of what to expect when crossing the Canada/United States border to visit your spouse while your permanent resident application is pending. Unless you prepare and present yourself appropriately, it is likely that you will experience delay and questioning at the border. This article will help you avoid needless unpleasantries in that regard.
Firstly, insofar as your permanent resident immigration application is concerned, if you and your spouse plan to submit a spousal sponsorship, it is best to file it as a Consular processing application in which you need to return to your country of origin, as opposed to making an in-land application or an adjustment of status application in the country where you plan to reside. This is because the fact that you will have to return home for a Consular interview to get your permanent papers will demonstrate your intention to return to your country of residence on trips to visit your spouse and therefore make such visits easier for you.
As far as visiting your spouse in the meantime is concerned, it is impossible to prepare you in such a way that you will never have trouble visiting. This is an area of the law that is difficult and always volatile and unpredictable. You need to be prepared to face questioning and uncertainty each time you try to enter your spouse’s country of residence. If you have filed a Consular processing application your chances of success are high, but not certain. There is always the chance you will confront a border official who got up on the wrong side of the bed that day. But the chances are low – maybe 10 percent. There are things you can do to improve your odds of success however.
To start with, you need to demonstrate a clear intention to return to your country of origin. This is what border officials will be looking for - they want to make sure your visit is temporary. The best way to demonstrate this is to show strong ties to your country of origin. “Ties” are aspects of your life that bind you to your country of residence: your possessions, employment, social and family relationships in short: roots in your community.
It is helpful to carry relevant documents that will support your intention to return home. Any document that shows establishment in your community is beneficial: drivers license, health card, library card, bank statements, credit card statements, utility bills…etc. If you do not have these documents, you may want to consider getting them before you travel, as they will come in handy at the border. Make sure that your documents are not contradictory - your address and other personal information should be the same on all of them.
Potential Border Question for Visitors to the United States or Canada
Before you even get to the border, bear in mind if you and your spouse have passports from different countries this will immediately raise a question in the mind of the customs officials and will likely invite further questioning to determine whether or not you intend to return to your home country. One way to avoid the problem is not to travel together, if that makes sense. If you do travel together, be ready for further questioning along the lines outlined below.
Now here are a few potential questions you could face at the border as well as some comments on possible answers that make sense.
- Where are you headed?
- If you are heading to your spouse’s residence, this
may invite further questioning. You want to state the
city where you are heading without adding anything
- What is the purpose of your trip?
- If the purpose of your trip is only to visit your
spouse, you will likely face further questioning. The
mere hint of the existence of a romantic relationship
may excite the suspicions of border officials on the
lookout for illegal immigrants planning to stay in the
country permanently. You are guilty until proven
innocent in this context.
- It is not that it is a sin to visit your spouse or
to say that is what you are doing. And it is not that we
are trying to deceive. What we are trying to do is make
an reasonable effort to provide answers that are honest
yet not the kind that invite further inquiry into a
- This does not mean you should deceive the examiner.
In fact you could be barred from entry into the country
for three to five years if they find that you are
purposefully deceiving them. However, direct answers
just stating that you are going to visit your spouse
alone, unfortunately, could trigger a series of further
- There are some answers however, that are less
- Most people traveling have multiple purposes when
visiting their spouse. They may be planning to attend a
major event for example or do some touring. If, for
example, there is a major event in the location, such as
the Olympic games, you may want to state that as your
purpose. If you are touring say touring as a tourist.
These are honest answers but do not immediately invite
unwarranted suspicions about your purpose.
- If you are pressed further, you must answer
truthfully and reveal everything, particularly if you
are asked to go into secondary inspection i.e. the
office to the side where it sometimes feels like you are
in a torture chamber strapped to an electric chair,
where they turn on the searchlight and do a root canal –
just kidding! i.e. where you are asked further questions
about your stay in the USA. Your policy in this
situation is brutal honesty – spill all the beans – tell
them exactly what you are doing and be prepared to sit
it out for a few hours with them.
- Where will you be staying?
- If you will be staying with your spouse, you will
likely face further questions. If it makes sense, stay
in a hotel, with other family or friends.
- How long will you be there?
- It is a good idea to have a pre-determined departure
date for your visit, and, if possible, a method of
return (i.e. a booked flight). You can stay for a
maximum of six months on any trip, but the longer you
plan to stay the more questioning there will be.
Multiple shorter trips are better than one six month
trip. If you just get a stamp in your passport that
signals you have been granted up to six months to stay.
- Where do you live?
- Maintaining a permanent residence in your home
country will help demonstrate your intention to return
home. The documents we mentioned earlier help to
establish your credentials in this regard.
- What do you do?
- A letter from your employer indicating that you have
taken vacation time, but are expected to return on a
specific date is helpful. Not having a job or studying
in school are serious deficiencies in asking to visit
another country since they imply rootlessness.
- How much money are you bringing with you/Are you
carrying any large amounts of currency with you?
- Carrying large amounts of money may suggest that you
do not have plans to return home. If you are carrying
more than $ 10,000 you must declare that to customs – so
don’t do that.
- Have you ever been denied entry to our country?
- If you have been previously denied entry you will
likely face further questioning and investigation. You
must admit that you have and have an explanation ready
as to what happened.
- Have you even been arrested?
- If you have been arrested before you can expect to
face further questioning. Have an explanation ready.
It is a good idea to be as prepared as possible for questioning, but remember, you must answer all questions truthfully. Finally, make sure you are dressed appropriately for the occasion – wearing a bikini or a clown costume while trying to visit will not serve you well.
Copyright 2011, Andy Semotiuk. All rights reserved
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